5 ways to mentor (not just monitor) your child’s online safety

It’s tempting to track every move your child makes online, but the best way to keep them safe isn’t constant surveillance—it’s teaching them to navigate the digital world confidently.

Here are some simple ways to shift from monitoring to mentoring and raise kids who make safer choices online.

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1. Make online safety a two-way conversation

Instead of just setting rules, ask your child about their online experiences. A simple “Have you ever seen something online that made you uncomfortable?” can spark important discussions and build trust.

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2. Set boundaries with them, not just for them

Help kids recognize scams, cyberbullying, and privacy risks. Role-play real-life scenarios like getting a suspicious message from a stranger so they know how to respond.

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3. Teach them how to spot red flags

While it’s easy to ignore the system update notifications on your phone or device, software updates often contain critical security fixes that protect against the latest threats.

What you can do: Set your devices to update automatically so you don’t have to think about it. Regular reminders can help keep everyone on the same page. You’d rather be safe than sorry!

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4. Model good digital habits

Your child learns more from what you do than what you say. Put your phone down during family time, avoid oversharing online, and take screen breaks—they’ll follow your lead.

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5. Utilize safety tools

Parental controls aren’t just for blocking—they’re for teaching digital responsibility. Show your child how to manage screen time, filter content, and adjust privacy settings so they can eventually do it on their own.

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Your goal: Protection and preparation

By mentoring instead of just monitoring, you empower your child to make smart online choices—even when you’re not watching.

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